So very true, but it can also be wise. I wrote recently about reactivity as just one aspect of my triad of voice. Responding and creating being the other 2. Reactivity gets a bad reputation, but I’m learning to see it more and more as a wayward child that means well (survival, boundary defence etc.) but who I can often say thanks but no thanks too. I know you want to help and I appreciate how you’ve kept me safe in the past but I need to pause and respond to this moment instead of giving you the wheel.
So very true, but it can also be wise. I wrote recently about reactivity as just one aspect of my triad of voice. Responding and creating being the other 2. Reactivity gets a bad reputation, but I’m learning to see it more and more as a wayward child that means well (survival, boundary defence etc.) but who I can often say thanks but no thanks too. I know you want to help and I appreciate how you’ve kept me safe in the past but I need to pause and respond to this moment instead of giving you the wheel.